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Explore Your Sexuality By Watching Videos

Change in culture is always visible with change in the kind of movies that are made and released across the world. Sometimes in some parts of the globe, there may be drastic changes that might not be acceptable elsewhere. This often leads to a delay in releasing the movie in the countries that have not seen such drastic culture shifts. We often find that controversial movie do not get released in theaters.

However, we soon see them appear on the shelves in movie stores. Getting CDs of these movies is not at all difficult. There are, however, a certain category of movies which just do not get sent to theaters. Instead, they are only out on CDs and DVDs. Adult videos fall into this bracket as most people who are interested in watching them prefer to do so in the privacy of their homes rather than in the company of the general public in movie theatres.

However, we do know of pornographic movies that were released in certain theaters way back in 1972. One movie among these that did exceptionally well was The Devil in Miss Jones.

As the years moved on, we began to see immense advancements in technology. People now started using video cameras to shoot these adult movies. This technological advancement led to a majestic leap in the growth of the adult industry and there has since been a consequent boom in demand for these movies.

Since a lot of such movies would not be shown on TV for obvious reasons, the only way in which people who were keen to watch these could do so was by waiting for the videos to be released. And then came the big Internet boom.

When the Internet was introduced, people realized that they no longer needed to wait for the movie to be released. Neither did they have to depend on friends to smuggle in the videos for them. One could simply download the videos from the Internet. As a result of this, those movies that were banned in a particular state could still be downloaded and watched by people living there.

This is how the adult movie industry makes its big bucks these days. Moreover, it is not considered a violation because authorities mostly do not get notified of the same.

At the same time, in other parts of the world, rules are slowly being relaxed with regard to the distribution of adult videos. This only makes it easy for people to gain access to them.

Nowadays they don't have to sneak into the stores or wait for nightfall to borrow or watch them. Today there are many couples around the world who are dealing with intimacy issues and see no way of solving them. If they seek the guidance of a counselor or talk to friends they might manage to get the same advice. A revolution in this arena is that many have discovered adult videos.

These videos help couples with intimacy problems to find answers for many of their queries. These videos have occasionally been used to bring such couples closer and rejuvenate their relationship. It is almost like a miracle cure for married couples who are going through difficult phases or who are trying to break barriers and learn to bond. The same can be said for singles that are stepping into relationships but are afraid of going further for fear of rejection.

It is all a matter of personal discretion and the willingness to experiment with what God has given us. You have to figure out whether or not this seems to be the right choice. If not, then you will have to look for other alternatives to add some spice to your lives.

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What is Tantric Sex?

Tantric sex has many names in today 's culture: spiritual sex, sacred sexuality, spiritual union, and others. However, a common denominator in all these names is that they all relate to some level of spirituality.

Tantric sex is indeed related to your spiritual well-being because even though you are engaging in the sexual act, the purpose is not really to reach orgasm but to unite with your lover in ALL possible aspects. To put it simply, tantra lovemaking is not about intercourse per se, it 's about uniting or fusing together your bodies, and in the process connect with your partner in mind, body and spirit.

Tantric Sex History

Tantric sex has its roots in India some 4,000 years ago, where it was viewed as - what else - a spiritual tradition. It started to be known in the West in the early 1800s but it never really had a tremendously huge following.

However, in the late 1960s, a rebirth of the practice was reaching new heights in India and this led to its consequent re-emergence in Western culture. Today, tantric sex awakening is reaching an all-time high because you now also have such high profile couples advocating the benefits of tantric sex. For instance, when Sting mentioned on Oprah that he and his wife Trudie engage in tantric sex, which enable them to experience 'five or six or seven hours of lovemaking', the whole world wanted to find out what tantric sex is all about!

As mentioned, tantric sex is not just about 's ex', it involves many things: tantric breathing, tantric sexual massage, creating a scared tantric place, meditation, prolonging sexual intercourse, and even tantric after play. All of these have a special purpose in tantric lovemaking.

Tantric Sex vs. 'Normal' Sex

The main difference between tantric sex and lovemaking as we commonly view it today is this: reaching an orgasm. With regular sex, you have a goal - to reach your climax and that 's it. However, since men and women have different needs, more often than not, one of them (mostly women) do NOT reach their sexual goal (climaxing) and so there is a lot of pent up sexual frustration in today 's relationships. It is thus no wonder that a lot of relationships have underlying stresses.

Consider these common scenarios.

- He reaches his orgasm but she never does, resulting in sexual frustration for her.
- He 's a very caring guy and wants her to experience sexual pleasure but it takes her a long time to 'come' and so it 's building up performance anxiety and sexual frustration for him.

In contrast, Tantric sex is not about reaching an orgasm. It 's about union. The main purpose is to connect with your lover in all aspects: heart, mind, body and soul. Does this mean you don't reach an orgasm with Tantric lovemaking? Of course not!

On the contrary, Tantric sex practitioners swear that they have never had more body-rocking and mind-blowing orgasms before they tuned into to Tantra sex. So don't worry; you're in for A LOT of sexual pleasure with this form of spirituality.

Getting Started with Tantric Sex

The best way to get started with Tantric sex is to start slowly. Begin by viewing your sex partner in a different light. Try to see her as a goddess, a sexual playmate that you hold in the highest regard, and that making love to her is not just about physical pleasure in your groin area but about ecstasy in all aspects of your being.

Try this exercise: get a piece of paper and list down all the beautiful qualities or everything you like about your woman. Some men like to list down everything, even 'great cook!' or 'best woman driver I know' because, according to them, it helps them appreciate her more. Others, however, prefer to just list down sexually-related aspects such as 'I love how her hair sways when she 's on top of me', or 's he has the best looking ass I know'. Write down whatever aspect you feel like listing that will make you see her in a whole new light. Whatever works for you!

After creating your list, look over it and then close your eyes and revel in each of these qualities. Now, picture making love to her. Don't you see her now more than just someone to reach an orgasm with?

Lastly, people who engage in Tantric sex love it because 'things just keep on getting better'. Tantric lovemaking believes in this doctrine: practice, practice, practice! Yet at the same time, Tantric sex provides immediate improvements in your sex and spiritual life. So go try it. You have nothing to lose and so much to gain.

About the Author

Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com

8 Sex Positions

Sex shouldn't resemble Naked Twister. Too much twisting and contorting can leave a woman feeling like a sexless member of Cirque du Soleil. "Unlike men, women can lose an orgasm almost in the midst of having one," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First and He Comes Next. The solution? This simple series of positions, designed to help you flow naturally from move to move without ending up like a flesh pretzel.

Missionary


It's tame, but it's a natural starter because of strong eye contact, says Kerner. "But men often ejaculate faster because of the friction." To last longer and keep her happy, switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.

Spider

Sit back and pull her toward you while you both lift your knees. "Physically, it allows her to feel a deeper, more intense, more intimate stimulation than missionary, with less friction," says Candida Royalle, author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do.


Reverse Cowgirl

Encourage her to turn around and face away from you. This creates G-spot stimulation for her, and the change will help you hold out longer. If she seems uncomfortable on top, resume the spider or try the spork, two natural transitions


Doggy-style

"It's the most arousing position for men, because it's the most primal," says Linda Banner, Ph.D., author of Advanced Sexual Techniques. The angle also allows for deeper penetration, which ups your chances of stimulating her G-spot.



Belly Flop

Grab a pillow and enjoy a little downtime. "Lay the woman on her stomach with the pillow under her hips so her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance of hitting her G-spot," says Banner. Extend your arms to keep the weight off her.


Lazy Man

Here's another move that maintains intimacy. Simply lean back and gently pull her on top. "This can help women feel in control," says Sarah Janosik, a sex therapist and cofounder and clinical director of the Austin Center for Sexual Medicine.


Spork

Similar to spooning but slightly more ambitious, this position makes a natural bridge to more creative positions. "If she's limber enough, he can also lift her leg, thus increasing penetration," says René Hollander, Ph.D., a sex therapist.

Man Chair

Once past the basics, positions become "more about psychological novelty," says Kerner. Doggy-style is about your dominance, but from there you can naturally transition into this rear-entry position that puts her in the driver's seat.

Move logically between positions to increase her arousal.




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First Kisses: A tip for the girls


This has always driven my husband crazy, every girl should try it at least once! When you are alone, talking and just hanging out, start looking at him intensely while his talking, like you are super interested in what he's saying. Then as he's talking, move in closer until you are right up in his face. While he's still trying to figure out what you are doing, take one hand and slip it under his belt and pull him to you. Right before you lips meet stop look him straight into his eyes and just brush your lips on his, or give him a gentle like on his bottom lips, before going in for the kill.
Try it, you won't regret it!!

Sex Tips for Virgins on Their Wedding Night


How to Make Your Wedding Night Unforgettable
If you'll be a virgin when you get married, you're probably feeling some apprehension about what will happen on your wedding night. Here are tips and advice to help things go smoothly.

How to Communicate BEFORE the wedding night
Pick a quiet moment to ask your soon-to-be-spouse "are you feeling nervous at all about our wedding night?" Odds are, he or she will be relieved to have the opportunity to talk about it. Talk about what your hopes and fears are. You may want to visit a counselor, or talk about sex during your pre-wedding counseling. If you are too nervous to bring up the subject of sex, consider leaving a magazine open, or even forwarding this article in an email.

Will she bleed? Will it be painful?
When a woman loses her virginity, it is possible for it to be a little bloody or painful. However, it shouldn't last for too long, and it is almost never very serious. To make things easier, make sure there's plenty of foreplay before you try penetration. You'll also want to have a good lubricant. I recommend a brand called "Slippery Stuff" because it is safe to use with latex, and it's glycerin-free. (Glycerin can cause yeast infections.) Even if you use a lubricated condom, you'll want to use extra lube. And, if you're afraid of bleeding on the hotel sheets, bring a towel with you, or your own sheets.

Will he be able to maintain an erection? What happens if he can't?
The pressure of the wedding night can be too much for many men. If things aren't "working," try to change up the mood. Spend some time kissing, and fondling each other. Perhaps make a game out of how many different body parts you can kiss, or be a little more serious by talking about the wedding, your love for each other, and milestones ahead of you.

Will I be any good? How can I wow my new husband or wife?
Sex, like most things, takes practice. You are likely to be a little clumsy and to feel a little goofy. Take things slowly, and try to listen to your partner. Find out what feels good, and what doesn't. Don't be afraid to ask! But don't concentrate on how mind-blowing (or not!) the physical feelings are. Instead try to be gentle with one another, and focus on how amazing it is to finally be in each others arms as a married couple.

Learn how to french kiss.


Do you want your first french kiss to be very special. What are some of the things you need to know about french kissing.


French Kiss tip one.
It seems basic but brush your teeth and use a tongue scraper. No one likes bad breath.

French Kiss tip two
Get in a good position and hold your lover gently. It is hard to kiss when your back is hurting. Hold your partner so she does not get pushed arround.

French Kiss tip three

Angle your face so as not to bump your nose.
French Kiss tip four

Kiss normally for a while, before going anywhere else like french kissing.
Then use your tongue to gently play with your lovers lips. If she responds then play with her tongue with your tongue.
No slobbery kisses please.
French Kiss tip five.
Explore the rest of the mouth. Best to breath through the nose. Also use your hands to touch your lover lightly. Holding the head or hair can be a turn on.

No biting please!

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